Nobody prays for it, but one of life’s inevitabilities is, that try as we might prevent it, things will at some point go wrong. Life is full of ups and downs and its no news to anybody that on the whole, you’ve gotta take the bad with the good. Still though, people often don’t take the bad too good.
I’m feeling all life skill oriented at the moment… so… lemme help you get your mind right…
There will always be something that can turn up and potentially steal your joy. Sometimes there doesn’t even have to be a thing. It might just be the way you woke up, anything. You might just be in one of those moods on one of those days.
Usually, at the far end of things when there is actual pain or misery derived from what you are dealing with. It’s a pain that is attached to us at first by our subconscious and our conscious mind. As you know, pain is our brains way of telling us that we don’t like what’s happened to us and/ or it wasn’t good for us so it gives you pain so that you don’t do it again.
Even when it’s emotional ‘pain’ it’s just like the pain you receive when you put your hand too close to the fire.
Think about it, when your hurt about something, -unless you’re the type who wallows in their pain-, do you tell yourself to feel bad, or find it difficult to eat or sleep or similar?
No.
What has happened is your conscious mind at some point let your subconscious know that what ever hurt you was important, normally by making it subject of much of your focus. It may be an exam you were preparing for, or an outcome you were waiting on. The more you thought about it the more it stuck to your subconscious, Attatching with it all the associated feelings you placed next to it’s success or failure.
So when the thing goes wrong, even when you’re over the initial shock or disappointment, your subconscious mind is still dealing with it. Trying to alarm your whole body that the important thing has gone wrong and at the moment, it’s chief priority is to consistently remind you of this, which will explain why you cant, shake the feeling even when you would like to.
After all you spent so much time feeding it with whatever the thing was when you wanted it to go right, now you’re subconscious is just repaying the favour.
When this happens though, there is a sure fire way to quickly beat the problem.
First of all, allow yourself to feel what you feel. Satisfy your subconscious by submissively/ but naturally allowing yourself to actually respond to the upset that you are feeling. However, it’s important to consciously remind yourself that you are ‘allowing yourself to feel this’, keeping you in control.
Also keep firmly in mind that you will not allow yourself to feel this forever. In fact, identify in your mind what you feel would be a reasonable amount of time to feel upset by it. In this time you can think about what went wrong and be upset or whatever. Then when you get about half way into that time, start to make a plan of action in which you actively attempt to reverse whatever the issue is. Think of a few ACHIEVEABLE outcomes that would turn the bad situation into a good one and map it out in your mind. Don’t do anything with it yet; just build the map as clearly and concisely as you can.
Then do something NOW, which will make you FEEL happy. NOW! Just do it. Eat, exercise, dance, get some air, talk to a human being, watch a comedy... anything that makes you feel good. I recommend getting up and doing something as a pose to a movie under a duvet. Getting your blood flowing releases natural chemicals in your body, which naturally make you feel good.
Doing this should actively conquer whatever feeling you had about whatever went wrong. What’s more you’ll have done it in a way that is not just bottling up things as a coping mechanism short term neither have you just repressed what you have being feeling. What you have done is dealt with the situation and associated feeling on three different and very important levels.
Firstly you have allowed yourself to ‘grieve’ and thus allowed yourself freedom of expression and the opportunity to actually mark your ‘sadness’ as a pose to glossing other it.
Then, by planning a course of redemptive action, you have given yourself practical steps which will satisfy your subconscious helping your brain to stop reminding you how bad things are as there is a path to something as good or better.
You’re subconscious can get out of panic mode when it can identify an achievable positive solution. This will stop you feeling down or helpless about the situation and give some good old-fashioned positive hope. This is only enhanced when you get up and get your pheromones flowing, instantly making you feel good about yourself, knocking away the current bad feeling and enhancing your anticipation about whatever plans you’ve made.
Wonderbar!!!
Bad things will always happen, and if you wait for them to fix themselves before you allow yourself to feel good. Then not only will you be feeling bad for an unquantifiable amount of time, but you’ll also be ‘hella-pissed’ when you realise life isn't waiting for your ‘bad situation’ to fix itself and something else as bad or worse comes along.
Ever felt under the weather and that the hits just kept on coming? Yeah, thought so!
I say stay ahead of the game, and keep a smile on your face by taking things head on and realising that while situations may vary and seem wildly different. The associated feelings are often the same. Frustration is frustration whether you haven’t got a job after 5 years searching, or you delete all your phone contacts… or your car wont start.
Sure they vary in degrees, but the root feeling is the same. Anger is anger, sorrow is sorrow, and glee is… a television show.
So realise whatever you feel you’ve probably felt it before at some level and you’ll probably feel it again. So knowing that time WILL heal and the feeling WILL pass, why spend longer in the feeling than you need to. A little perspective goes a long way, so when things go wrong, just know that your just ‘perspective’ away, from putting things right!
Life get’s better the longer you live it, so long as you better the life that you live.
Peace
VOR
Monday, 7 February 2011
Saturday, 5 February 2011
Hold tite you.
Big up yourself, your large!
Yeah, you.
You're a top guy, girl, person. A genuine gem.
This is for you because you don't always get the recognition you deserve, or the incentive to keep you as you are.
Just a few of the things I salute you for are below;
You're an optimist who seeks out the best in people and finds it where others can't even be bothered to look. You don't use what they say to make your judgement. You use what you experience, then you test it, again and again. Just in case you'd gotten it wrong as you don't want to hastily put it down as a negative.
In fact in finding negative you're inspired to search deeper for the good. YoU are not a fool! You are a rare and fantastic human being.... you're wired differently.... you're wired correctly.
You're not fussed or moved by the he-say she-say. You're not mad because he's an attention seeker, or she's a big mouth. You're cool with the fact they are not perfect and people with delusions of grandeur don't irk you. You wish them well and move it along. You wish them well and mean it.
You trust until you're trust is betrayed, believe until you're lied to and leave yourself vulnerable to heartbreak. Too brave to close up. Too real to fake. Too unconcerned by what they/ we say or think about your kindness, niceness, openness.
You leave people more often than not with smiles not frowns, good news not bad, edification and not despairing negativity. You're alright you.
You forgive my worst actions and forget my worst states. You build up, not tear down, you make me wanna be better!
You don't need the conspiracy theories, you see what's right with things before what's wrong with them. Be it people, institutions, situations or anything else, their weakness' are not you're talking points. What you can't fix you accept.
You do you, confidently, emphatically, wonderfully well and also cautiously, embarrassingly and woefully bad. But because you are a human, of the honest, real variety.
You fail because you try, and therefore win, for the same reason.
You work tirelessly when no-one is looking to effortlessly be what those who look, see.
You unashamedly think and act as you do. shining, fading and then shining once more. Not perturbed by failures, mistakes and/ or things they know.
You believe your beliefs and doubt your doubts. You happen to believe in people.
You're a star because you look to add to yourself without taking from others, as well as enlarging others without shrinking yourself.
You're better than you think you are, you know, and there's more in there.
When you know it you'l be even greater.
Yeah, you.
You're a top guy, girl, person. A genuine gem.
This is for you because you don't always get the recognition you deserve, or the incentive to keep you as you are.
Just a few of the things I salute you for are below;
You're an optimist who seeks out the best in people and finds it where others can't even be bothered to look. You don't use what they say to make your judgement. You use what you experience, then you test it, again and again. Just in case you'd gotten it wrong as you don't want to hastily put it down as a negative.
In fact in finding negative you're inspired to search deeper for the good. YoU are not a fool! You are a rare and fantastic human being.... you're wired differently.... you're wired correctly.
You're not fussed or moved by the he-say she-say. You're not mad because he's an attention seeker, or she's a big mouth. You're cool with the fact they are not perfect and people with delusions of grandeur don't irk you. You wish them well and move it along. You wish them well and mean it.
You trust until you're trust is betrayed, believe until you're lied to and leave yourself vulnerable to heartbreak. Too brave to close up. Too real to fake. Too unconcerned by what they/ we say or think about your kindness, niceness, openness.
You leave people more often than not with smiles not frowns, good news not bad, edification and not despairing negativity. You're alright you.
You forgive my worst actions and forget my worst states. You build up, not tear down, you make me wanna be better!
You don't need the conspiracy theories, you see what's right with things before what's wrong with them. Be it people, institutions, situations or anything else, their weakness' are not you're talking points. What you can't fix you accept.
You do you, confidently, emphatically, wonderfully well and also cautiously, embarrassingly and woefully bad. But because you are a human, of the honest, real variety.
You fail because you try, and therefore win, for the same reason.
You work tirelessly when no-one is looking to effortlessly be what those who look, see.
You unashamedly think and act as you do. shining, fading and then shining once more. Not perturbed by failures, mistakes and/ or things they know.
You believe your beliefs and doubt your doubts. You happen to believe in people.
You're a star because you look to add to yourself without taking from others, as well as enlarging others without shrinking yourself.
You're better than you think you are, you know, and there's more in there.
When you know it you'l be even greater.
Monday, 24 January 2011
Cloud £9M
My name is Deola Sulola.
And I JUST WON £10.54 million!!!
Naturally, i'm pretty excited about it. When i first got the little e-mail on my blackberry that The National Lottery has 'some news about my ticket'. I went back to bed, I know the drill, I probably won £10, £20 or maybe even £80. Nice I suppose, but nothing to crack the laptop open for.
Life resumed as usual.
I guess it's fair to say that it only served to make things even more immense when I finally logged in to be told I'd won the jackpot. how do you pronounce R. E. S. U. L. T!
The odds, in the millions. but, someone seems to win every week and there has been a lot of weeks in my life. so erm, this ones mine!
It's hard to describe the feeling as it starts to sink in, the knot in your stomach as it tightens and loosens simultaneously or the waves of guilt and nausea which give a way to genuine fear.
'things like this don't happen to me... something bad must be around the corner?!?
So, my life should be sooo different now, and i guess it is. Still a slave to tiredness, hunger, gravity and the confines of time.
But hey, I have right now what most people spend there entire lives wishing for.
And all i ever crave right now, is the right feeling at the right time and a peaceful life. Things which money isn't always a part of.
But hey, if you've read this far, you're probably really happy for me, right? well, in two weeks time on a Friday I'm going out to celebrate. I really hope you will join me... its gonna be a mad one!! I'll let you know the details soon.
Till then, all the best and remember.
And I JUST WON £10.54 million!!!
Naturally, i'm pretty excited about it. When i first got the little e-mail on my blackberry that The National Lottery has 'some news about my ticket'. I went back to bed, I know the drill, I probably won £10, £20 or maybe even £80. Nice I suppose, but nothing to crack the laptop open for.
Life resumed as usual.
I guess it's fair to say that it only served to make things even more immense when I finally logged in to be told I'd won the jackpot. how do you pronounce R. E. S. U. L. T!
The odds, in the millions. but, someone seems to win every week and there has been a lot of weeks in my life. so erm, this ones mine!
It's hard to describe the feeling as it starts to sink in, the knot in your stomach as it tightens and loosens simultaneously or the waves of guilt and nausea which give a way to genuine fear.
'things like this don't happen to me... something bad must be around the corner?!?
Well, when i'm at a loss in life (haha loss!!) or if i'm in an unknown or unfamiliar situation. I like to create a reference point and map my way out. Here, my only yard stick was that I have always told myself in countless thoughts that on the day of my first million. I will go out 'running and screaming and throwing up everywhere'!
I ran. I screamed. I threw up everywhere.
Once the nervous energy is gone, and it really is a lot of nervous energy. Time begins to move really slowly. Like 'Fat man in the cake isle in sainsburys' slow. Nigerian movie (gospel music in the background) timeline transition slow. Titus Bramble slow.
Once the nervous energy is gone, and it really is a lot of nervous energy. Time begins to move really slowly. Like 'Fat man in the cake isle in sainsburys' slow. Nigerian movie (gospel music in the background) timeline transition slow. Titus Bramble slow.
Its almost impossible to endure with the millions of thoughts (aaahhh £££millions) running through my mind. Cue insomnia, intense privacy and a chronic need to get out of the house.
Everything feels like a test, driving suddenly feels so much more perilous. I dont want to die now, not before i've drank from the platinum cup of sweet wealth. Nostalgia too, kicks in, I find myself looking back at my actions and balancing things off. All the people I hurt, all the things or people that hurt me, all the desperate, dire and broke-minded things i did when penniless. All those times I was there for, or gave to people. Put it all on a scale and...yeah, definitely reckon I was in due credit around £10.54M!!!
After pulling out from my past, and wondering just how fast it would all catch up with me, I begin to look to the future. In honesty, mapping it out and planning ahead are the first things that give me peace about it all. There is a calming assurance that comes with knowing what you want and that you can easily work towards it. I write it here to give myself some accountability, to erm, you. This money will change me, but only in ways that I want it to.
They say money magnifies the man. So if you see me small now, here's what may be all up in your face shortly!.
Well, I have decided I will continue to work, I do a rewarding job where i can make a genuine and tangible impact. Sure I may take time off now and then to contribute time and energy to my other causes. but i wont leave. Infact I will still collect my pay and after my initial spending spree, which will be on a house a car and family donations, I will live off my salary and interest, only.
There are a couple business plans I've made which will also get off the ground. So I'll also have money put aside for that.
I don't think it will be obvious to everyone that i'm filthy stinking rich. I used to think i'd want to have an helicopter sitting on my roof. And that i'd have to buy a second helicopter just so people looking at my house when I'm IN the helicopter wont think i'm 'helicopter-less'. But i wont do that, not immediately, people might think that was over indulgent.
Im going to put away 4million in a high interest bank which I cant touch for 23 years. then i'm going to spend another 4million on Bonds, stocks and T-bills. The other money will be to use as i please, I'll give at least £25K to each household in my family. (I don't want to interfere with their lives, but i want to help... I may try and give them money discreetly so they don't know its from me?) 'Kanye shrug'
After pulling out from my past, and wondering just how fast it would all catch up with me, I begin to look to the future. In honesty, mapping it out and planning ahead are the first things that give me peace about it all. There is a calming assurance that comes with knowing what you want and that you can easily work towards it. I write it here to give myself some accountability, to erm, you. This money will change me, but only in ways that I want it to.
They say money magnifies the man. So if you see me small now, here's what may be all up in your face shortly!.
Well, I have decided I will continue to work, I do a rewarding job where i can make a genuine and tangible impact. Sure I may take time off now and then to contribute time and energy to my other causes. but i wont leave. Infact I will still collect my pay and after my initial spending spree, which will be on a house a car and family donations, I will live off my salary and interest, only.
There are a couple business plans I've made which will also get off the ground. So I'll also have money put aside for that.
I don't think it will be obvious to everyone that i'm filthy stinking rich. I used to think i'd want to have an helicopter sitting on my roof. And that i'd have to buy a second helicopter just so people looking at my house when I'm IN the helicopter wont think i'm 'helicopter-less'. But i wont do that, not immediately, people might think that was over indulgent.
Im going to put away 4million in a high interest bank which I cant touch for 23 years. then i'm going to spend another 4million on Bonds, stocks and T-bills. The other money will be to use as i please, I'll give at least £25K to each household in my family. (I don't want to interfere with their lives, but i want to help... I may try and give them money discreetly so they don't know its from me?) 'Kanye shrug'
I met a Multi-millionaire at work this week and I liked his style. It was a smart, casual and elegant look. which seemed to say "You cannot say for sure how much money I have... but you wouldn't argue with whatever amount i told you!" So yeah, i'm going for that look.
Eventually I want a tennis court, swimming pool and all round entertainment room, but that's only going to happen once I have used the money to make money off of my own ideas and hard work.
Lottery money is starter money.... it's not really the same... I've got to make mine!
'God bless the child that has his own'
Lottery money is starter money.... it's not really the same... I've got to make mine!
'God bless the child that has his own'
So, my life should be sooo different now, and i guess it is. Still a slave to tiredness, hunger, gravity and the confines of time.
But hey, I have right now what most people spend there entire lives wishing for.
And all i ever crave right now, is the right feeling at the right time and a peaceful life. Things which money isn't always a part of.
But hey, if you've read this far, you're probably really happy for me, right? well, in two weeks time on a Friday I'm going out to celebrate. I really hope you will join me... its gonna be a mad one!! I'll let you know the details soon.
Till then, all the best and remember.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Signing out...
Signing out...
Tuesday, 11 January 2011
No Time Like The Present.
My name is Deola,
I have been threatening to begin a blog for two years.
I have been aiming to finish writing a book for three years.
I have been preparing to share my works and writings at shows and events wherever they might have me. perennially.
I have been waiting.
Procrastinating.
Wasting.
I can speak with almost as much confidence for the majority of my generation as I can for myself when I say we are a people who like to 'wait for things to happen.'
We are much more reactive than active and for some reaction only stretches as far to mean we go in the direction the wind blows us, which isn't really reaction at all, rather just, lightweight-subconsciential-compliance
If you talk to those around you, whether that be the person dearest to you or the stranger at the bus stop. Chances are they are waiting for something - and not just the bus.
In just how many conversations do we hear or say that we are tired and cant WAIT to go to sleep, that we cant WAIT to leave work, cant WAIT for christmas, or pay day, or dinner time, or ... Eastenders... (shrugs)
Others of us base our feelings on what we are waiting for, we will feel better when we 'find the love of our life' or pursue that dream that we actually have little intention of ever actually pursuing because the fear of failure far outweighs the anticipation of potential success.
Besides, sometimes it's better to have something we can just 'dream' about.
We wait, some of us JUST wait, with little thought or care towards what it is we are waiting for.
Something will change, something will come and break the monotony. If it doesn't, that's ok, we will again just wait. something will happen!
There is a quiet satisfaction about our waiting, which a lot of us would struggle to admit. After all, we go on day by day, often not feeling a day closer to anything that we have been 'waiting' for and yet there is no heightened urgency or increased efforts to bring them about, no thought that , 'no, maybe this bus doesn't come here...'
It would be easy and on occasion, accurate, to say this is just the product of a lazy, Hollywood induced, fast food cultured generation. A generation void of genuine patience and good old fashioned work ethic.
A generation with so much choice and access available to us we don't know how to 'stick things through.' or ride out the rough patches. Yes all these things play there part in wait and procrastinate mentalities but I think there's a bit more to it, at least for some of us.
Its almost as if we have become too smart, or at least too preemptive for our own good. It's as if we know that while we like to wait for things that will 'make us happy', we know they wont necessarily make us happy when they arrive. Built within us as children (for those of us who actually got presents) was that steaming anticipation of a gift coming, and then realising upon its arrival, that beyond the initial window of gratitude and glee that came from getting what we wanted. Eventually, we are left with an emptiness that could only be filled by the desire of something else, something more. That this window tends to get shorter and shorter the older we get perhaps partly explains why we struggle to commit to getting the things that we want... for fear we just might get them.
My Bishop, uses a metaphor to describe this, loosely quoted;
'Peoples dreams are like seeds in their hands. A source of hope... an opportunity; while that seed is in their hands they have something to hold onto, something to believe in and fend of questions regarding what they might have in store for their future.
The problem is to get anything out of a seed you have to plant it. This means facing the reality that there will be a time, often a long one where your hands are empty and there is nothing to show for, nothing to show off. '
Which is quite frightening.
but invariably true.
We wait then, for something to happen with seeds in our hands and soil at our feet. Afraid to reach out and invest our potential. Still hoping, but a ridiculous hope, not quite a false hope because the potential is still there, but a hope deferred. Hopelessly deferred.
The truth is, as I see it, that waiting for an environment to change our demeanour is naive and counter-productive. What is worse is when we cling onto that idea without doing anything that will actually affect that environment.
so what's the solution?
If there is such a thing.
well, frankly if you want to see something happen or change in your environment, start doing something now. plant the seed today.
if you want to see a change in yourself. Do it now, plant the seed today!
it's such a simple solution to a world of problems, but as you read think of the way you would like to feel in your life right now. why are you not feeling that way?
Its easier than you might think to feel how you want to feel. In the space between your ears you have the powers, just alone through manipulation of suspended-reality, to make your self happy, sad, angry or put yourself in fits of laughter all in the next 5 minutes if you choose to. Why not choose how you feel on a more regular basis?
You'd probably be surprised on how natural it quickly becomes.
Furthermore.
Think of that thing you've been wanting to do... Why, why on earth have you not started it?
I teach maths and mentor young students. Regularly I tell them this.
Maths, like life, is just a series of simple steps that can look complicated when they are together.
i.e if you break every thing down in maths, and indeed in life, to the smallest point. there is a 1+1 step. something you can do that brings you closer to your goals and solving the overall equation.
Find me a truer statement.
I Deola sulola have started my Blog.
What will you start TODAY?
Feel free to comment or whatever it is ppl do on blogs.
Adios,.,
I have been threatening to begin a blog for two years.
I have been aiming to finish writing a book for three years.
I have been preparing to share my works and writings at shows and events wherever they might have me. perennially.
I have been waiting.
Procrastinating.
Wasting.
I can speak with almost as much confidence for the majority of my generation as I can for myself when I say we are a people who like to 'wait for things to happen.'
We are much more reactive than active and for some reaction only stretches as far to mean we go in the direction the wind blows us, which isn't really reaction at all, rather just, lightweight-subconsciential-compliance
If you talk to those around you, whether that be the person dearest to you or the stranger at the bus stop. Chances are they are waiting for something - and not just the bus.
In just how many conversations do we hear or say that we are tired and cant WAIT to go to sleep, that we cant WAIT to leave work, cant WAIT for christmas, or pay day, or dinner time, or ... Eastenders... (shrugs)
Others of us base our feelings on what we are waiting for, we will feel better when we 'find the love of our life' or pursue that dream that we actually have little intention of ever actually pursuing because the fear of failure far outweighs the anticipation of potential success.
Besides, sometimes it's better to have something we can just 'dream' about.
We wait, some of us JUST wait, with little thought or care towards what it is we are waiting for.
Something will change, something will come and break the monotony. If it doesn't, that's ok, we will again just wait. something will happen!
There is a quiet satisfaction about our waiting, which a lot of us would struggle to admit. After all, we go on day by day, often not feeling a day closer to anything that we have been 'waiting' for and yet there is no heightened urgency or increased efforts to bring them about, no thought that , 'no, maybe this bus doesn't come here...'
It would be easy and on occasion, accurate, to say this is just the product of a lazy, Hollywood induced, fast food cultured generation. A generation void of genuine patience and good old fashioned work ethic.
A generation with so much choice and access available to us we don't know how to 'stick things through.' or ride out the rough patches. Yes all these things play there part in wait and procrastinate mentalities but I think there's a bit more to it, at least for some of us.
Its almost as if we have become too smart, or at least too preemptive for our own good. It's as if we know that while we like to wait for things that will 'make us happy', we know they wont necessarily make us happy when they arrive. Built within us as children (for those of us who actually got presents) was that steaming anticipation of a gift coming, and then realising upon its arrival, that beyond the initial window of gratitude and glee that came from getting what we wanted. Eventually, we are left with an emptiness that could only be filled by the desire of something else, something more. That this window tends to get shorter and shorter the older we get perhaps partly explains why we struggle to commit to getting the things that we want... for fear we just might get them.
My Bishop, uses a metaphor to describe this, loosely quoted;
'Peoples dreams are like seeds in their hands. A source of hope... an opportunity; while that seed is in their hands they have something to hold onto, something to believe in and fend of questions regarding what they might have in store for their future.
The problem is to get anything out of a seed you have to plant it. This means facing the reality that there will be a time, often a long one where your hands are empty and there is nothing to show for, nothing to show off. '
Which is quite frightening.
but invariably true.
We wait then, for something to happen with seeds in our hands and soil at our feet. Afraid to reach out and invest our potential. Still hoping, but a ridiculous hope, not quite a false hope because the potential is still there, but a hope deferred. Hopelessly deferred.
The truth is, as I see it, that waiting for an environment to change our demeanour is naive and counter-productive. What is worse is when we cling onto that idea without doing anything that will actually affect that environment.
so what's the solution?
If there is such a thing.
well, frankly if you want to see something happen or change in your environment, start doing something now. plant the seed today.
if you want to see a change in yourself. Do it now, plant the seed today!
it's such a simple solution to a world of problems, but as you read think of the way you would like to feel in your life right now. why are you not feeling that way?
Its easier than you might think to feel how you want to feel. In the space between your ears you have the powers, just alone through manipulation of suspended-reality, to make your self happy, sad, angry or put yourself in fits of laughter all in the next 5 minutes if you choose to. Why not choose how you feel on a more regular basis?
You'd probably be surprised on how natural it quickly becomes.
Furthermore.
Think of that thing you've been wanting to do... Why, why on earth have you not started it?
I teach maths and mentor young students. Regularly I tell them this.
Maths, like life, is just a series of simple steps that can look complicated when they are together.
i.e if you break every thing down in maths, and indeed in life, to the smallest point. there is a 1+1 step. something you can do that brings you closer to your goals and solving the overall equation.
Find me a truer statement.
I Deola sulola have started my Blog.
What will you start TODAY?
Feel free to comment or whatever it is ppl do on blogs.
Adios,.,
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